You don't have to be in crisis to take your mental health seriously.
In fact, Mental Health Coach Jeane Torre would prefer that you don't wait that long.
“Coaching is perfect for everyday stress because it gives us a chance to plug the leaks before the boat sinks.”
It's an analogy that captures Jeane's approach to mental health coaching particularly well. Burnout rarely arrives overnight. Stress builds. Boundaries slip. Healthy routines get harder to maintain. Eventually, even a small change can feel like a big ask.
Mental health coaching creates an opportunity to intervene earlier.
We talked with Jeane about what coaching looks like, how it differs from therapy and why sustainable change requires more than an initial burst of motivation.
For Jeane, it's about recognizing that everyday stress deserves attention, too.
“Burnout doesn't happen overnight. It builds over time, often because of unchecked stress.”
Coaching creates time to step back and look at what's happening while someone still has the energy and capacity to make changes.
And those changes don't have to be dramatic.
“If we can intervene early and help someone make one small change, let's do that rather than waiting until they are so depleted that even one small step feels overwhelming.”
Sometimes simply making time for the coaching session is that first small change.
Almost anything they want to change. Some people want to prioritize themselves again. Others need help establishing boundaries, communicating better or navigating stress.
“The goals that people bring to mental health coaching are as varied as the people and challenges themselves,” Jeane says.
The common thread is movement. Coaching helps someone clarify what they want to change and then identify realistic steps for getting there.
Jeane puts the distinction simply:
“Coaching is about naming where you want to go and figuring out how to get there.”
Sometimes, however, moving forward requires working through something deeper. That's when therapy may be the better fit. What's important is that recognizing the need for therapy doesn't have to mean starting over.
Jeane can talk with a patient about why therapy might help and connect them with another member of the First Stop Health team, sometimes scheduling that next appointment before the original conversation even ends.
“I don't have to offer the equivalent of a referral form and send someone on their way.”
It's a small operational detail that can make a meaningful difference. The next step becomes part of the care they're already receiving.
When Jeane began working with her patient Erin, he wasn't entirely sure what to expect from coaching. But as they began working through the stress in his life, he started seeing changes that reached beyond his mental health.
Over time, those conversations influenced how he approached his relationships, his health and even challenges at work.
Looking back, he described the experience simply:
“Engaging in this has resulted in me rewriting my freaking life.”
Erin's journey is a powerful example of what can happen when people have support before stress becomes overwhelming.
This is where Jeane challenges another familiar idea: knowing what you should do isn't the same as consistently doing it.
There's a reason so many New Year's resolutions disappear before the year gets very far. In coaching, Jeane starts by getting clear about the goal and, importantly, why it matters.
“When life gets in the way, because it will, we use those moments: What worked? What didn't? What can we try differently next time?”
A setback isn't necessarily evidence that the plan failed. It can become information for what comes next.
“We're not just getting through the challenge in front of us. We are learning from it and we are building on it.” And seeing that progress, Jeane says, can help people stay engaged.
Jeane describes mental health coaching and therapy together as “wall-to-wall mental health support.”
At one end are people doing well who want to continue growing and maintain the resilience they've already developed. At the other are people struggling to get through the day and needing more support. And, of course, there's everyone in between.
That's where coaching can play a particularly preventive role.
“People don't have to wait until every day is a challenge to get support.”
Someone can work on communication. Establish better boundaries. Navigate a transition. Build healthier routines. Manage everyday stress. Mental health care doesn't have to begin at someone's breaking point.
We tend to notice mental health when something has already gone wrong. Jeane's perspective flips that idea.
What if someone had support while the stress was still manageable? What if they had space to examine what wasn't working before quitting the job, taking leave or feeling completely depleted? What if building resilience were treated as part of staying healthy rather than something reserved for recovery?
Sometimes compassionate care means helping someone through a difficult moment. And sometimes it means reaching them before that moment arrives.
Compassionate care makes a difference. See what's possible.