Growth Mindset Parenting

What is growth mindset parenting? A growth mindset occurs when we believe that we can improve our abilities and intelligence. As a result, we’re more willing to embrace challenges, take risks, and see failure as both inevitable and a chance to grow. It’s never too early to plant the idea that our brains are like muscles that can grow and change with effort and practice. Here are 5 ways to instill a growth mindset in your kids.

1. Resist labeling your child (or others.) 

Whether it’s positive (“She’s a great student!”) or negative (“Don’t be lazy with your work.”), labels promote a fixed mindset. A child who has been labeled a “good student” their whole life may flounder the first-time work gets challenging. 

2. Let your kids make mistakes.

Some of the greatest lessons in life come from our mistakes. Normalize this life experience for your kids so they don’t come to fear them. 

3. Give permission to fail.

The expectations to get all A's because “they’re capable” leaves no room for error. Permission to not be perfect takes the anxiety out of learning. It also nurtures creativity and taking on challenges. 

4. The power of "yet."

A small word, with a big impact. Studies show that when kids face a setback using the words “yet” to describe their abilities “I’m not good at this yet” increases confidence and persistence.

5. Praise the process.

Think of praise as an opportunity to shine a light on something you know serves your child and something you want to see your child do again. For example, “I like how you checked your book to help you solve that problem.” vs. “Great job, you’re so smart!”

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